good luck with her your tourist visa, there is a high rejection rate thou
i know if a bar girl is not working, she doesn't get paid, so how is she going to pay for her visa and flight ?
when someone acts different, you know there is a problem, is she not texting you or answering the phone, it could be she telling you the real reason, or shes is avoiding you, the reason, who knows, keep asking her, until she finally tells you the real reason..
good luck thou, this is not going to be an easy relationship for you.. but not impossible
