Looking for advice for a possible overly sensitive guy!

[DaveUK]

Well you say you're a sensitive Guy! What are you doing with prostitutes then?

I'm a sensitive Guy, it's never been a help to me in my life but I've never touched a prostitute either.

There is plenty of nicer girls in the world including Filipinas.

Move On

What's being sensitive got to do with seeing a bargirl?!

[rabb5it]

What's being sensitive got to do with seeing a bargirl?!

Dave, I don't think it's generally perceived that sensitive people associate with bargirls. I would have assumed they would take a more cautious, thoughtful approach to their actions. To consider the greater picture in any given circumstance. In this case the morals, the dangers, the health hazards, the supply & demand scenario etc. Look at the psychological effect this had had on you. Perhaps you don't have psychological capacity to back up your physical actions.

And don't worry, I'm no angel. I've even been arrested and threatened with the birch in your country.

I really hope this is all some help in analysing yourself, your actions and going forward.

[andypaul]

[quote=rabb5it;54936]

And don't worry, I'm no angel. I've even been arrested and threatened with the birch in your country.

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The Birch wow thats a long time ago i think 1948 birching was banned in the Uk or did you cause a riot in the Prison before 1962?

[kimmi]

And don't worry, I'm no angel. I've even been arrested and threatened with the birch in your country.

The Birch wow thats a long time ago i think 1948 birching was banned in the Uk or did you cause a riot in the Prison before 1962?

[rabb5it]

The Birch wow thats a long time ago i think 1948 birching was banned in the Uk or did you cause a riot in the Prison before 1962?[/QUOTE]

To my knowledge, Corpral punishment and capital punishment for murder is still enforcable in the Isle of Man. Am I also right in thinking the IOM isn't part of the UK?

[DaveUK]

The Birch wow thats a long time ago i think 1948 birching was banned in the Uk or did you cause a riot in the Prison before 1962?

To my knowledge, Corpral punishment and capital punishment for murder is still enforcable in the Isle of Man. Am I also right in thinking the IOM isn't part of the UK?[/QUOTE]

You're right, it's not technically part of the UK, just geographically.

[rabb5it]

To my knowledge, Corpral punishment and capital punishment for murder is still enforcable in the Isle of Man. Am I also right in thinking the IOM isn't part of the UK?

You're right, it's not technically part of the UK, just geographically.[/QUOTE]

I've been to the IOM thrice Dave, it's a beautiful island. I first went when I went to the Easter Athletics festival in Douglas in 1975. Is it still held there? Another two visits saw me walking much of the coastline. Just loved the places & the people & the quieter pace of life. I hope to return.

[DaveUK]

Dave, I don't think it's generally perceived that sensitive people associate with bargirls. I would have assumed they would take a more cautious, thoughtful approach to their actions. To consider the greater picture in any given circumstance. In this case the morals, the dangers, the health hazards, the supply & demand scenario etc. Look at the psychological effect this had had on you. Perhaps you don't have psychological capacity to back up your physical actions.

And don't worry, I'm no angel. I've even been arrested and threatened with the birch in your country.

I really hope this is all some help in analysing yourself, your actions and going forward.

Hold on a minute! Apart from the fact, you're attempting to dish out advice long after the fact, I think you're focusing way too much on the sensitive part of the subject title of this thread!

What are you talking about when you go on about having the pychological capacity to deal with it?!? For me, it was just more a case of naievity, brought about by a lack of experience in dealing with bar girls! Nothing more, nothing less! Ok, I made a mistake in falling for one! But who hasn't fallen for someone (and I don't mean a bar girl) who is obviously not good for them!

If you've actually bothered to read this whole thread properly, you will see, thanks to the advice from everybody on this forum at the time I started this thread, I've now learnt a great deal! I'm less naive, a little more wiser, and also very appreciative of the advice given to me!

I'm now also well into the process of moving on from this part of my life, so thanks for your attempt at advice, but I think it's a case of too little, too late!

[joebloggs]

dave your right, you trusted someone who let you down, i'm sure thats happened to everyone at sometime, and worse is when you let yourself down..

nothing wrong with being sensitive or trusting, 2 good qualities in a person.


and as for hindsight

“Hindsight explains the injury that foresight would have prevented”.

and

“May you have the hindsight to know where you've been, The foresight to know where you are going, And the insight to know when you have gone too far”

[baboyako]

what did you eat for breakfast joe?

[aromulus]

dave your right, you trusted someone who let you down, i'm sure thats happened to everyone at sometime, and worse is when you let yourself down..

nothing wrong with being sensitive or trusting, 2 good qualities in a person.


and as for hindsight

“Hindsight explains the injury that foresight would have prevented”.

and

“May you have the hindsight to know where you've been, The foresight to know where you are going, And the insight to know when you have gone too far”

what did you eat for breakfast joe?

If a bacon butty does that to a vegetarian, I will go out and buy myself a piggery.....

[joebloggs]

If a bacon butty does that to a vegetarian, I will go out and buy myself a piggery.....

i think i drank too much apple tango that day


meat is murder - the Smiths