Hi Ken
Good luck with whatever decision you make, but be careful. It is easy to think everything is as it seems when you want it to. You need to think carefully about what you are going to do.
It may be betterto leave things for a while and then think about it with a clear head, but at the end of the day it has to be your decision.
I guess I am fortunate as I met my wife here in the UK so disdn't have any of the problems you mention.
Have a look at some other posts and websites, there are some real horror stories but there are also some womderful stories.
As I say just be vareful and think clearly.
