Hi mick, personally, i feel its rude to talk with my friends in our language with my hubby (bf back then) around. So i make sure to talk in mixed language (taglish) so he can understand and i would normally translate some of the tagalog words or tell him every now and then "were talking about this and that", so he doesn't feel left out. You wouldn't want to be with a group and all they do is talk in language you don't understand and its like you're not there![]()