Sadly I have come across come guys who come across like that both when they are in the Uk on planes and over in phill. Who were saying how i should treat my Wife and Phill family

I have met some americans in particular (certainly not all americans) ho were treating their girlfriends like objects and talking about them to me in a manor i found offensive and presuming my then Wife to be was just a plaything

Steve Wool I certainly dont think James would put you in that group I know I certainly wouldn't what i know of you from this site Emma soundslike she is a very lucky Lady